Two weeks pass with nothing. Candidates read it as rejection or as rudeness; it is usually neither. Senior offers require several people to agree on paper, and that takes longer than the enthusiasm in the room suggests.
It rarely means a decision has been made against you and nobody has told you. Companies are generally quicker to reject than to hire, because rejection needs one person's sign-off and an offer needs several. A long quiet period is more often a sign of process than of bad news.
Hiring moves fast when it is easy and slow when it is expensive. A senior offer is expensive.
A short note asking about timing, tied to something real — another process, a notice period — is professional. Weekly chasing is not.
Not as leverage. As insurance. A process that feels certain can still end for reasons that have nothing to do with you.
Tell them what the role is and what is likely to be asked. An unprepared reference is the commonest avoidable loss at this stage.
Work out what you want while you are calm, not in the twenty minutes after an offer arrives and you are pleased.
If two chased messages over three weeks produce nothing, treat the process as inactive and behave accordingly — not offended, just no longer waiting. Processes do restart, and the candidate who stayed gracious is the one they come back to.
Nothing you do in this window will speed up a committee. What you can control is that you are still prepared when it ends, and still in other conversations if it does not.
At senior level, references are rarely the three names you supplied. Knowing how they are really gathered changes what you should do about them.
Read → Pay and the offerAt senior level the negotiation is short, mostly decided by what you established earlier, and far more about structure than about base salary.
Read → Searching while still employedSenior searches take longer than anyone plans for, for structural reasons. Knowing where the time goes stops you reading normal delay as failure.
Read →A short call, your target list, and an honest answer about whether this fits how you are running your search.